If I was in your shoes as a single male living at home...

My wife has too many shoes , and I havent kicked her out yet 

Private money - showcase the deal you've done and a sample model of what you're looking to purchase.

I've been in your shoes.

The search continues, so you are not alone in finding the perfect lender, if they exist.I try to put myself in the lenders shoes, and there ultimate goal is to maximize the rate of return on deployed capital. 

In your shoes I would reach out to owners in the complex and see what the new buyers are doing for funds.

You have provided a valuable lesson for everyone hoping to be in your shoes someday

BTW, I barely came out of that deal with my big boy shoes still on, but persistence and exposure ended in a settlement with the offending party. 

Her telecommuting options are very limited, and she has no desire to leave her current job.Current Financial State:Saving $5k per month to put towards investments or extra debt paymentsHave around $110k in fixed-rated debt (all 6.5% interest or less)Have around $40k in variable-rate debt (currently at 7.95%)The Million 2.5 Thousand Dollar Per Month Question: If you were in my shoes, how would you reach my goal as quickly as possible?

Everyone who's a member of BP was once also in your shoes so rest assured you're in good company.