I guess I did not realize I could participate directly with a sponsor as a non-accredited investor, sort of tricky because they can't advertise to me, however I'm not aware of a place where I can go and seek them out (except maybe here).

Seek out another bank who won't require seasoning.

Good morning, I'm seeking for Highly Recommended Mortgage Lenders local in Union County NJ.

I am seeking advice regarding pittfalls regarding and his to avoid them during these tricky times.

Seeking a little insight and direction for a property in Senatobia, Mississippi. 

I'm seeking for advices and referrals.

What I need advice on is what type of loan should I seek out and what is the best option?

You want S corporation treatment. 

I will however say that in places like CA the work is more front loaded as described above and get easier as time goes on, which is why sooo many newbs seek the "easy way out" out of state, but in contrast, out of state the work and struggles tend to be back loaded after you buy.

However, it could get to 10k per unit so it's wise to seek professional help on this matter asap.