I have 2 properties currently financed with a private lender, wanting to refinance with a bank commercial loan for longer term.

This works OK for relatively static and simple investments like a private placement or crowdfund, but can become rather cumbersome and expensive with a more time sensitive and transaction intensive asset such as a rental property.

Hey BP,I am a little hesitant pursueing this park due to it being on private utilities.

Through a private owner.

Personally I'm going to try my hand at private money lending in the upcoming year or two, wait for a decline in housing prices, and then take on a buy and hold or a fix and flip.

The other thing with this strategy that I would suggest is to use private money and partnerships in order to build relationships.

Private lenders?

Feel free to private message me or text me at my number below and we can talk. 

He suggest the contract in his company name, I put down $5k Ernest money, we use a hard money lender or private money which he can get.

go back to your lender and see if you can get an extension and a further advance for that one thing.