Try this... build a much larger column base at the same height as the bottom of the stone, maybe tapered (bigger at the bottom) and made from a similar stone, with a much larger column (easily built onto the existing post) resting on top.Find a NATURAL, neutral-colored, plain stone or slate, and tile the raised concrete stoop.Paint the entry door a deep, very rich color that complements the brick.Then, the gable on the right with round-butt shingles (I think) needs a lighter color, maybe even a bit bright to complement both the brick and the entry door, since it extends over the stoop.Finally, taller greenery under the stone with a lower front level of varying texture and color (especially around the entry) will result in the stone being much less prominent.

If you were both funding 50/50 the natural assumption would be to just split the overages.

I know the answer before even asking but it is our nature to ask.we are $60k in consumer and have $70k left on the mortgage of our home. we're working the debt snowball and calculate to have all the debt paid in about 4yrs. not counting raises and my wifes bonuses she gets.

I currently own/ operate 2 STR's in CO and if you enjoy beautiful hikes, mountain homes, skiing, and amazing nature views overall, it may be the place for you! 

I could see a lot of entry level folks working in those hospitals/universities being forced to go South due to rising rents in West Philly (by 30th Street and beyond) so Grays Ferry would be the natural progression to remain close and have reasonable rents.

Go for the lender who really understands REI and the guidelines that are associated because the scenarios are naturally very different than a lot of lenders typically deal with.

The beauty is you are not being scrutinized but anyone but yourself, now I am a perfectionist...so I'm probably harder on myself than someone else would be.

Maybe I will see ya when you vist my Beautiful hometown of Cleveland!

If your wife's initial natural reaction is "Eeew!"

Its a beautiful place to live!