You are hopelessly confused between trying to buy the asset versus trying to buy equity at a discount.Banks and other secured lenders can do whatever is legal, within their charter and what they believe to be in their stockholders', servicing clients' managers' best interest.Lenders gave no moral or contractual obligation to protect the borrower's property.

No more mortgages for me. 

The no. of beds my property can accommodate is no more than 8 beds.

You can require 24 hours notice for showings, showings within certain reasonable hours and no more than so many showings per day or week.  

However if you want to name 4 properties then their aggregate value can be no more than $400K. 

Text: "The 28/36 Rule states that a household should spend a maximum of 28% of its gross monthly income on total housing expenses and no more than 36% on total debt service, including housing and other debt such as car loans."

No more than 25 miles from your residence.

The guy that is selling this is on BP, we could ask him :)They promised it is no more than 40k :) And gave those pictures.They also promised it is 3/1 in reality it is not.

If so, you should have known that the second appraisal was going to stick with the property, and the other lender had no more chance of getting the loan done than WF did.

You may have some ordinaces concerning unrelated parties in a single family residence, usually no more than three but I doubt you'll have a problem with 2 friends.