They all used the same the tactic, money.I would offer a generous buyout, which I know will be hard on principle, but you'll spend just as much on lawyers and preserve your sanity in the long run, wishing you the best of luck.

Remember, no system is perfect, so avoid the temptation of constantly chasing after the next shiny object.

It’s not a lot of $$$, but on principle I don’t feel like I should have to reimburse her for using those very specific anchors, right?

Your “rent” is going to be the landlord’s principle, plus taxes, plus insurance, plus their mortgage interest, plus profit.

Of course interested parties have a right to object to the sale - both to the executrix and the Court.The 90% of appraised value does not apply to confirmed estate administrators with full authority. 

True again, but what if interest rates stay volatile for longer than expected, and the market stays locked up longer.Meanwhile the property is bleeding 6 figures monthly, and the added capital will only go so far, unless there is a major change in the interest rates soon, and that doesn't seem likely.They also say if we don't infuse more capital we may lose our principle too, as they will be forced to sell at a loss.

Equity   -    my 800-900k equity is currenlty producing, 72k liquid cash per year,  40k principle paydown per year.      

It'll depend on your objectives.

@Fenzee PierrePart of your question depends on your objectives.

Normally cash-out refinances are capped at 75% and of course, they will need to cash flow positively with principle, interest, taxes, and insurance.