You will quickly learn the ropes, earn a good paycheck, and determine whether this is a career path you want to pursue.

But many booking windows across the country have compressed, and you will get bookings if you are seriously competitive.

I'm sure if one can walk that "straight and narrow" path to doing it right, then its worth it. 

I work with MF developers across the country walking through the same type of projects.

This might be a long shot, but open communication can sometimes lead to unexpected solutions.While these steps may not guarantee a resolution, they could help you find a path that avoids foreclosure and allows you to relocate your family.

You are in a great spot to re-start your journey, especially with the help of your VA benefits and service to your country.

In many areas of the country you can grab duplexes for about $100k. 

Wholesaling will not work for everyone, especially not someone new trying to do it in arguably one of the two hardest wholesale markets in the country due to price, experience, and owner savvy (NYC and LA).Posts aren't negative if they don't agree with you.

I work with community bankers all over the country that work with OOS investors.

Taking that first step to learn and connect is huge, and it sounds like you're already on the right path by diving into podcasts and resources.If you ever have questions about specific investing strategies or need advice on navigating the market, feel free to reach out.