Seller is paying the buyer's broker at closing (ME) $8250 and 'contributing' another $8250 towards buyers closings costs. 

I'd like that to be financed as well somehow, and it seemed to me like a private lender would be the best way forward for that, but all the profit on the BRRRR is stuck in the deal as equity, so paying the private lender back seems challenging to me. 

However, the property does have Property tax lien and HOA lien.

She should only pay for the unit she occupies and the days she occupies it.I'm not real familiar with Venmo.

My now attorney is just along for the pay.....no help.

We are realizing that this home doesn't fit our lifestyle anymore and we want to pay down debt and start saving to buy our first rental property. 

Listed some of the tax benefits you can receive while building an ADU and once the ADU is built from my research. 

Make sure to factor in all expenses, including property taxes, insurance, maintenance, and property management costs.Once you've found a suitable property that meets your criteria, make an offer and move forward with the purchase process.

The answer to every tax question is "it depends" ha!

Explain the damages that can and will result and that he/she would be responsible to pay for any damages.Most likely probably doing it to save money in heating costs.