It was a family tree that sowed its seed far and wide, so relatives didn't know if there were kids outside the family tree, just suspected there were.After locating 13 of the relatives, we gave up.

That bothers me, and it should bother you too.As for doing something about the situation, I do what I can. ... people getting fed up is what started the TEA Party.. you heard of them?

I have some family out in the Redlands and I actually just flew over there this past weekend en route to Joshua Tree for some film location scouting (I teach flying).Your experience sounds amazing and I have no doubt that you aren't someone I could learn a lot from!

Fill in the pool with a garden and plant a tree in memory of the woman to turn it more positive?

It takes about as much brain power to make wealth in SF or Hawaii as it does to fall out of a tree; anyone with a down-payment can do it, @Amit M. and @Bob Bowling .  

Kills any tree, plant bush etc.  

@Jonathan Tea for most of the routine maintenance things, they only need a handy man but they should have a contractor to handle larger tenant turn overs.

Its a gorgeous log cabin with surrounding willow trees and wrap around porch.

., etc.Yes, the best time to buy was 2010-2012, and the best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago.

Not everyone's cup of tea, but I like the taste.