I am finding each lender is unique in their own way, but have received some positive responses so hopeful I can get this done in a timely manner.

Clearly, each person has their unique circumstances and decisions of this size should be taken in context, with lots of deliberation and discussion (for all i know, I could be eating my words on this topic 12 months from now!).

would definitely consult an attorney as this is a very unique situation. 

Get them to purchase a money order OR there are programs out there that partner with popular convenience stores where for a small fee they can bring a cash payment and their unique code, and that payment is sent to you as an eCheck.

My primary objective is to secure a primary residence for myself. 1 bed, 1 bath in a safe neighborhood would do the trick.

Is the home being appraised a pretty unique property?

Now more than ever, quality, unique and individual design, and location are so importanf for a builder to close a sale.

I would just try to make the process as objective as possible.

The goal ends up being quite personal, and unique to your situation.

Hey Bill, you have the unique perspective of being both a govermental bureacrat and an enterpreneur.