I was already married with kids when I decided this is what I wanted to do, which throws a lot of wrenches in the plan.

Eventually, those two get married, and now I find out the wife is pregnant.

Here are the stats:Age - Male, 36 | Female, 39Kids - 2.5 kidsCars - 2.28 cars per householdHousehold Income - $53,657 (Male $53,684 | Female $36,151 with Married Couples Averaging $81,025)Average Home Price - $188,900Mortgage Debt - $110,000 per householdRetirement Account Balances - ~$63,000 in this age bracketVehicle Debt - $26,530Student Debt - $30,100Credit Card Debt - $5,747Note: These figures (with the exception of credit card debt) are for individuals who HAVE these types of loans, it excludes people with no debt, however, I would assume that the Average American owes money on a car or student loans.  

I lived there before i was married (last year). what would be my best play here?  

So, I will stay married to them AND my wife:)

I hope to someday marry my love for art, photography and Realestate investing, to create something that is unique and desirable.I look forward to hearing from those who have a positive and honest perspective and who are looking to be supportive and inspirational.

Happily married?

I'm originally from Fresno, CA but I moved out here and married this amazing woman about a year ago.

Many people have done a live-in flip, but you should seriously consider your lifestyle situation, for instance, if you are married with small children.

I didn't discover this idea until I was married.