Sometimes it's easier just to bite the bullet and have a GC pull one for the whole site and be the builder on record. 

Are you speaking about builders or developers? 

any body got a referral for banker on a jumbo loan?

It was a new build so there wasn't really room for negotiating price with the builder.

Time to contact the builder and see how to move forward!

For all you know, you are renting out to able bodied tenants for then next 15 year who never needed a elevator.Another option to consider for a house that large is renting by the room. 

Programs like Fortune Builders or HomeVestors preach what your associates say.

(Self disclaimer George is my father, but he is the most knowledgeable engineer and builder I have known)George is the perfect fit for buys and investors and here is why1) Knowledge - George has been a civil engineer in Denver for over 30 years 2) Building codes - George has not only worked as a civil engineer, but has also been a plans examiner, city inspector and chief building official in Denver. 3) Real Estate Investments - George use to be a Denver Area Realtor (not active now) and understands the Denver market.

Would you be able to recommend a builder that could advise my partner and myself about the options we have to develop a smallish piece of land in the Houston Metro area (Northline)? 

Also reach out to lenders through bigger pockets for second, third, fourth, nineteenth opinions until you find someone willing to loan to you.I work for a builder and some of the most cake deals for our preferred lender are people that were turned away and told ridiculous entry/UW guidelines from the companies you mentioned.