I think I should also address whether the apartment is in her budget while she is on disability.

(January) My 90 year old grandmother lives in Grants Pass in her own house that she has a remaining mortgage of about $70k.

If you listen to Brandon and David’s podcast with successful real estate investors across the board, they always ask the question, “what separates the successful real estate investor versus those who do not succeed” 9 times out of ten it is lack of action, self-doubt, and analysis paralysis that holds people back.Patience: back to understanding the power of compounding, you need to understand your personal financials (income, balance sheet, cash flow) and have the patience to let compounding work for you.Grit: you will face obstacles and bumps in the road.

I just told her she would not be able to move in until she had paid the balance and gave me verification that the utilities were in her name.

After 2 years of relative calm, this tenant falls behind in her rent, and my questions are answered sarcastically,  or not at all.

I have a friend who's mother died a year ago she left behind property/land thats in her name but no will she has two sibling but neither of them want anything to do with it, my question is, how do i go about helping her to get the property in her name, the property is going up for tax sale in November and she wants to save the property from being sold

She doesn't even use the bathroom so the only inconvenience is that someone was working in her rental for a while.

Calling something a great deal then adding on all the things that are going to cost excessive amounts of money or compromise your criteria would inherently negate it being a great deal.

Many REI go into this without it, or with a minimum, hit an obstacle, and can't get past it. 

Though, GREAT suggestions.She's remarried and probably in her 60's or 70's.