I've had a good experience with my Quest IRA.

Just like a regular IRA or SOLO, that would be a 'taxable event'.

Quest IRA offers a self direct IRA that allows you to invest in Tax Deedes.

If you have left the company you could move the money to a Self Directed IRA but you have the be very careful not to mix with other funds of yours and if you don't have cash for a full purchase then finding a lender will be more of a challenge.

And all the sources of funds must be able to be documented.Sources of Funds - Typically cash is king and any cash coming from a bank account, qualified retirement account that allows for a real estate purchase (typically a self-directed IRA), or borrowed 401k funds.

I've been reading a lot about both the Solo 401(k) and the Self-Directed IRA LLC. 

In 2015, my IRA account was down 40% at one point (was learning stocks still), but in 2016 I tweaked my strategy I was up over 20% for 2016.

on a separate note are you still investing in loans via your IRA and what service provider do you use for it if you do?

Or pay the $3000/mth into my husband's SEP IRA, or my 457 plan (I newly work for the county). 

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