I would obviously like to hold these properties should they be performing as I plan on doing a 30 year mortgage up front with possibility to refinance to a shorter term up front to pay everything off asap / avoid market fluctuation as best we can. 

My duplex in South Minneapolis has been performing quite well, so for now I’m going to stay in this position.  

I work a full-time job in the healthcare industry and my interest towards real estate investments in Charlotte stems from how beautiful of a city it is and my thought that in the coming 5-10 years, it is posed to experience aggressive expansion.

Looks beautiful! 

We are longer term investors and we invest for cash flow, so a short term change in valuation has very little to do with investment performance. 

Please be sure to select a Solo 401k plan provider which allows you to take a loan and will prepare the required 401k loan documents.The repayment terms are equal monthly/quarterly payments (as you prefer) of principal and interest (e.g. prime + 1%) spread over a 5 year term (or longer if you will use the loan to purchase your primary residence).There are no prepayment penalties and no restrictions on what you can do with the proceeds of the 401k loan.Please note that you are obligated to pay back their 401k (regardless of the performance of your real estate investment).As an alternative to taking the loan, you could even purchase the investment property directly using funds in your Solo 401k (assuming you select a Solo 401k plan provider which allows you to invest in real estate).

Lender C said I would not be able to close it with a fresh new LLC because that LLC wouldn’t have had any performance to show or tax returns to present during underwriting, and the way that most of her borrowers go is to close with their name first and within an hour of the closing, create the LLC with the help of an attorney and transfer title right away (not sure if this is even possible!).

How do I structure a deal with a private lender to acquire her non-performing notes, she has a lot of non-performing notes that she needs to deal with, her main interest is to receive monthly payments.

Unless you think they'll pursue you for performance, I'd bail.

The weather is beautiful and the food is good.