The guy I found my client was decent, but I'd prefer someone I have rapport with in the future. 

Right now I am heavily leaning towards student housing or multifamily homes throughout Michigan, preferably in West/ Mid Michigan.

In the same way, if another child brings a toy and doesn't share it but it flaunting it at other children, I talk about how that is actually his toy so he can do what he wants with it, but that his behavior is ugly and he is trying to make other children feel ugly, too--he is trying to make then envious, and why it isn't his owning of the toy that's the problem but his nasty behavior and how we can avoid being dragged down with him, etc.I make sure my kids both succeed and fail.

. - Plan 1 overall looks like a better planWhat plan would you prefer assuming we end up staying in the house for the long term and only think about selling much later on.I appreciate all your inputs!

Partner with a BP Member (preferably one in your area): It's a seller's market right now and presumably there is a lot of investor money floating around.

Does anyone have any recommendations for a lawyer in Michigan, preferably the Grand Rapids or Mid Michigan area?  

I'd prefer to keep government out of my business but it seems like a decent program.

Get the mortgage in his name (not my preferred option) ?

This would be my preferred strategy.

Definitely prefer the vision of house hacking with say a four plex and living in one of the units.