The disqualified persons list includes spouses, lineal ascendants (parents, grandparents, etc), lineal descendants (children, grandchildren), and spouses of lineal descendants.You could take a participant loan from a Solo 401k and lend that money to a disqualified person without violating any rules.

Hi Kevin.I just returned from Carolina Beach on a short vacation with my wife and children. 

So .  . their 2 adult children - both attending college locally - technically had to complete an application.

Can I make it to my children's soccer practice with snacks while comping out the trustee sales for the next day. 

The judge actually told both my attorney and myself, that we would be better not providing that stuff.I can only imagine the liability caused if you left behind bug spray and a tenant's children got into it.Yes, Great Country we live in right?

During this same time, I went back to work, which was hard as a mother of 3 young children.

I have a nonprofit program for children that I have run for just over 10 years.  

Drive through it frequently, at different times of the day -- you might be surprised by what your find -- people taking care of lawns of tending to backyard vegetable gardens, parents sitting on porches watching children play, neighbors chatting. 

I had a family with 8 not exaggerating here 8 children.

I could not have done it while I was raising children or a wife that was not on board the plan.