I'm active duty Navy and my wife, two daughters and I are currently stationed in San Diego, CA.

I guess what I am getting at is I know how exciting this is and we all want to grow our portfolios as quickly as we can, but you can't sacrifice your mental health for it!

If he has all his mental faculties, and is co-operative, there is no problem.

I am worried about being over leveraged on the property but as long as we keep the ADU rented we should be ok, and ARB is possible as Bend is a very touristy destination.We would like to move in a year or two when our last daughter gets out of school and rent both portions of the house or sell outright.This is our first deal and to be honest I am pretty darn nervous and so is my wife about these numbers as they are very big for us.

I am a lineman for Ohio Edison with and 7 year old daughter and recently engaged!

They have an adult son and daughter in law that are there all the time.

They have an adult son and daughter in law that are there all the time.

I'm crunching some numbers and would like to propose to my mother-in-law who has already allocated in her estate plans to gift our two daughters $30K each (x2=$60K) for their college education.  

3) Does she have "diminished capacity" (is she mentally capable?)

In 2003 shortly after her husband died (who was never on the deed), she quit claimed the deed to herself and to one of her daughters, Kate.