I say this as someone who has had 15 years of 'school' from college to board certification.I have learned anything I wanted to learn from the internet (languages, personal finance, real estate, how to do medical procedures {youtube} - not kidding).

Have buyer exercise the right to buy, which pays off me, and then I also exercise my right to buy at the same time?

The idea of exercise isn't to get the cheapest but to get a benchmark for PM services in your area so that you can make an informed decision. 

I have been a Registered Nurse for the past 8 years, working as an ICU trauma nurse and currently the Stroke Coordinator of a major Medical Center located in Northern NJ.

Is just a consequence to going into a medical field requiring a doctorate at this point.

@Salvador Pepe First you need to do a quick feasibility exercise to determine if a project will work financially for you or a buyer.Check with the city or county planning and zoning department to get an idea of what you can build and what is required for all approvals including site plan and building permits, proffers, water/sewer tap fees, bonding requirements, inspections and CO process and time frame for all approvals.You also need to check with the utility companies and get an idea of availability and cost estimates from them for water, sewer, power, gas, cable, installation and connection requirements, tap fees, hookup charges, transformer location and relocation, power line and power pole relocation issues.

Then you exercise the option once your old property closes.4.

We are looking to furnished corporate housing to traveling medical professionals ie nurses.

, let me pose to you the following thought exercise:  You have a 7-year old little girl who attends an elementary school walking distance from your home. 

As an exercise, assign a percentage to each component and I think it will get easier.2.