Also looking for feedback from people that don't work for BiggerPockets or are biased :)

So, many people in your area may not realize its negotiable and just assume its always handled a certain way.

Lots of other people had bad experiences. 

New realtors, new realty companies, new PMs aren't going to have those established relationships and *no* PMs give up the names of their people to anyone else because getting good people is difficult. 

I’m looking to network with people that help asset manage multi family apartment complexes.My business partner and I have grown to almost 300 units.

I think there is a good mix of people there. 

I understand the pros and cons of both so no real immediate preference.

The short answer to Kaleb is that 'yes', people in BP Nation have 'experience developing or owning something like this.'

I understand where you are coming from as we always did our taxes on turbo tax as well until we purchased rental properties. 

Sadly, both of them escalated this conflict and started creating domestic disturbances so we had to move both of them out.Assuming the upstairs family is being reasonable, I suspect no matter what you do, the people downstairs will never be happy.