So with that mentality in mind, this person may be willing to steal tools or materials from Lowe's, but would never dream of stealing from you.

@Damarius Gilbert my big mental block is what do i say to people that contact me from craigslist? 

I wrote a blog about this topic specifically for commercial multifamily, but a lot of the basic principals still apply:https://www.biggerpockets.com/blogs/10191/67979-po...This is by no means an exhaustive list, so I'll echo what others have said and advise that you seek out a CPA or tax strategist for advice an techniques.

@Ryan D. you are observing the herd mentality.

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Thinking that we need to sell in order to buy is a scarcity mentality and I need to stay away from that haha.

A form a lawyer provided:FORM TO REQUEST AN ASSISTANCE ANIMALWe are committed to granting reasonable accommodations when necessary to afford persons with disabilities the equal opportunity to use and enjoy our rental properties.Under the Fair Housing Act, a person with a disability is defined as a person who has a physical or mental impairment that substantially limits one or more major life activities.

However, for somebody that has a good portfolio and wants to simplify I would argue that refinancing and reinvesting is not necessarily the ideal approach given the stresses that it can incur.Again, this is coming from a place of ignorance since I am fairly new to investing but I think the beauty of real estate is that you can make it as complicated or simple as you like and tailor your investment to your vision for your lifestyle so perhaps the one approach fits all mentality is what I am against.

She was very stressed out about her situation which included divorcing a husband with mental health issues.

Likely, if the lady is in Raleigh and reached out to someone in CT, she has already exhausted potential suitors in Raleigh...