But I just realized today lenders may not lend to me if I do not have experience as a business since I only just opened an LLC but no business done as of yet.I'd say my goal in real estate is to generate at least 15k monthly cash flow to live more than comfortable and quit my job in the next 10 years (I am 36). 

Lately I've been tempted to flip but I keep reminding myself that steady cashflow in a strong market will ensure a comfortable retirement and will help put the kids through college" haha

Starting smaller might help you gain confidence and reduce potential stress.In your situation, if you're comfortable hiring a property manager to handle day-to-day operations while you’re working in the oilfields, going for the 4-plex could make more sense, especially with your high income.

They will dress modestly with comfortable clothes, and some of them are real estate brokers. 

Hey @Alecia LovelessI've actually been down this road myself and it really depends on how often you're using the equipment and how comfortable you are with maintenance.

Some investors opt for larger homes with more bedrooms, while others convert existing residential properties to fit more people comfortably, ensuring they meet safety and accessibility standards.One thing to consider—smaller operations like RAL often rely on word of mouth and local reputation to fill rooms, so community engagement and relationships with local health care providers are key to success.PS: Fun fact—by 2030, it’s projected that more than 20% of the U.S. population will be over the age of 65, which makes senior housing a high-demand sector for decades to come. 

I am more comfortable with the idea of the DIY software now. 

Get out of your comfort zone.

But yes, also to repay the $11m in sponsor funds - unlikely a preferred equity partner would be comfortable with that as well when providing rescue capital. 

Hot tubs, pool tables, movie rooms, kayaks and canoes, bikes, games, nice comfortable beds, smart TV's, video games, well stocked kitchens, etc.