And, I will not be getting paid hourly for my continuous efforts in building a massive marketing campaign.

It can be done but you need to educate yourself quickly and be prepared to make mistakes.

So start with education and networking, and then move to the next step - looking for deals!

So I am planning on figuring some type of possible commercial activity tax depending on City/County/State regs (payable by the 401k entity) and detailed on its own tax return, based on my BP education in process.    

Education, and 3.

She's been an amazing full time mom for the past 5 years, and will likely continue for the foreseeable future. 

I've spent that last two years preparing, saving, reading and educating myself through BP and several books for that one moment, that moment of pure ecstasy, the  moment I closed on a rental property.

Pitching a group of investors on large MF with only an education from a book is not something I would recommend.If they ask- what is your experience and you said “well I read this book...”.Put it this way - if you stepped on a southwest flight and asked the pilot his experience and he said “none but I read a book”, would you feel comfortable.

I would continue working on any debt that maybe hurting my credit score. 

Your wife's focus should be on education.