I am working really hard to make something happen by the end of the year - going to networking events, connecting with investors in the area, reading every BP book, anything I can get my hands on.

Are any other BP people going to this event?

(There are several other refinements that should occur to preceding #s as well). 

Are there any clever ways where I could purchase the house for my daughter with all cash and then subsequently have her refinance and pay back the cash to me without triggering either of the events above?

See lines 268-276 on page 7 of the state contract:"DEFAULT OF AGREEMENT BY BUYER: In the event of any default of this Agreement by the BUYER, the SELLER shall have at the SELLER’S option the right to declare this Agreement null and void with no further demand, or to demand and sue for any of the following: 1) Termination of this Agreement; 2) Specific performance; 3) Termination of this Agreement and an amount equal to 10% of the Sale Price as stipulated damages.

Or you can directly meet them by registering to real estate events around you: https://www.biggerpockets.com/forums/521-events-and-happenings 6.

Or you can directly meet them by registering to real estate events around you: https://www.biggerpockets.com/forums/521-events-and-happenings 6.

A borrower goes into foreclosure because of an event, avoidable or not.

There should be some events in your area right non BP.

If you have any questions about the event please feel free to ask!