The problem that I am needing help with is...if I have a 3.25% interest currently and the bank is offering me a 4.5% cash out refi that will take care all of my cc balances and give me enough to purchase new property, is this a smart move to go from a 3.25 to 4.5%? 

I also will help my friends and family by re-embursing them with the mandatory 6% realtor fee's, which brings me to my next question; could I advertise myself as an agent with my slogan being " I will give you $500 cash if you let me help you" I don't see any agents that do that, and I wouldn't care giving others part of my commission, so they could get money and I could also get money but most importantly the experience.although sheet metal workers in my area make an average of $90k a year, it is just hard on the body/lots of hours and would love to try perusing real estate.

Many ways to skin this, but I hope you are following. 

Is it possible to scale up your lawn care business?

Thank you,Laura Be careful of the allure of MFRs.

Something they are asking for but don't care about. 

How can I ensure that the seller will take care of the violations and pass the re-inspection after closing? 

Be careful

I am seriously thinking about going to someone else as this lack of care of my privacy information worries me.

A better way with single family homes is to buy them and then become a "lease option" owner who does financing to good people that have not qualified with a Bank and do not know about the alternatives and they will usually take better care of the home because they think they will own some day, collect a larger non-refundable deposit, the monthly spread between your payment and the rent during that period, and then make money on the sale option.  9 times out of 10 they usually do not purchase the home but you can do it again.