Always remember there is no "tone of voice" or facial expression to read in posts, and perhaps give the poster a break. 

Everything on top is just a fancier way of expressing the same basic principles. 

Such as what you have expressed. 

A lot of people shipping items to Maui use DHX also, dependable Hawaiian Express. 

Said disbursement instrux cannot be modified without the expressed written consent of both buyer and seller. 

@Kristen Bouvier Scoville Not expressing a strong opinion either way. 

The point I want to reinforce is expressed well in the old Russian proverb, "measure seven times, cut once." 

This expression came about as a combination of the shift of profit from ordinary income to capital gain, the fact that the property is reported on two consecutive tax returns, and attorney interpretations of some old case rulings. 

My wife write unprintable things in a foreign language on every HOA check we submit every month to express her frustration about being robbed every month.

So old school.... you know, theres a thing called the pony Express now???