I'll try to answer your specific questions but keep in mind I am not an expert, this is just some information I have picked up on my journey from more seasoned investors.1.

If you can't bear to think of yourself and accept yourself as someone who isn't a magical, special rainmaker in all ways (and there are many, many people who absolutely NEED to believe this about themselves), you're simply never going to get anything done in real estate over the long haul.

Good Luck on your journey.

I'm excited to start my REI journey. 

This means, at a 3% commission side, you stand to get back 1.5% applied to your closing (not in cash - unless different in your state, it is a violation of IRS tax code if you receive cash for this type of transaction, unless your agent also sends you a 1099 to cover this extra income).Best of luck in your journey on the first one!

Ready to set out on my own journey in real estate!

Good Luck with your investment journey.

I'm just starting my REI journey as well and my local HNB branch was very helpful and eager to help with residential (< 4 door) rental mortgages.

My wife and I self manage our 5 rentals and we have been on this journey for approx 3 years.

I agree with @Matt Nusbaum that the first step in your journey for a mentor or coach should be grounded in defining what the next level is for you and your wife and your team?