Understanding that you guys are a team is crucial, and a key to a happy relationship.I think you should look up Tony Robbins speech on the 6 motivations or needs of humans.

On the plus side, I believe and has been my experience that a motivated, hard working, intelligent, local RE operator can make good returns in any market in the USA ... they may use vastly different strategies in different markets and may need to shift those strategies as the market shifts, but there are always good returns to be had.

Very motivating. 

 Like the title states..iv those qualifications at the Minimum.Im a very excited and motivated "Learning" Investor.Id Love to start Networking and speaking with people (esp in my area/Metro/Wayne County Area Michicgan) I posted about my Experience in Construction Not only to speak of my qualifications and "advantages" i may have over other beginner investors but also bc like i said im excited & MOTIVATED to learn every bit i can and get my first Deal on its way!

Your story is definitely motivation for all of us here. 

Owner early on if not in BK could be excited and motivated to do a short sale.

Yes,  here's my motivational speech...

A career that I can finally be proud of, have bragging rights, and where i can wake up every morning motivated and committed.      

THAT right there what gets me motivated to jump in.

While you can definitely find a deal on the MLS, the biggest problem is finding a seller who is motivated to sell, which is not easy to gauge by looking at a screen.