They'll also commonly want net worth and liquidity equal to the loan and 10% of the loan, respectively.

Honor and respect his/her time.

Could also help with any other questions with respect to how to manage, etc.

I’ve found that the vast majority of tenants respect their lease term.

I understand this is part of the business and I need to be as unemotional about it as possible but it feels like a real kick in the chin when someone has so little respect for your property & the overall business transaction in general.

Hopefully you have good people who can respect your wishes and move on. 

A lawyer, no matter what they draw up, can't assure respectable behavior.

While I respect syndications and hard money lenders, like you I am trying to build a portfolio myself and I'd much rather have more control over the opportunity and actually purchasing the asset allows you do just that.

If it's not in there, then the tenant has the right(and honestly the responsibility) to decline that inspection, hopefully respectfully.

Always treat vendors with respect.