We are repainting the existing kitchen cabinets.

Those customers are coming to you because of price only.

For one, there is a lack of customer service.  

Also appears to have stains on ceilings so I am assuming roof leaks - roof replacement.So new kitchen cabinets, countertops and appliances, new landscaping front and back, new bathrooms (2), new roof, paint interior, exterior, repair eaves and exterior wood facia damaged, minor stucco patches, new electrical and plumbing fixtures, new flooring (tile in kitchen and baths, carpet in bedrooms or wood vinyl), and minor misc.-  total should be around $35k to have a very nice remodel. $30k if the roof is OK.

Yup, especially if it's completely custom...

You can have the fees paid by either party and they do free custom web forms that will take eCheck, Credit and Debit. 

We certainly look at them by custom, accept them as a tool to evaluate a deal, but there are better measures, such as the ROI and COC, weighter approaches to an IRR. :)

Refinishing hard wood floors, installing hardwood in one room that had carpet, new stainless steel appliances, venting out bathroom and kitchen range hood, all new paint, new light fixtures and door knobs, lots of plaster and patch work, new fixtures in bathroom, keeping tiles in bathroom and shower but doing a super heavy cleaning, refinishing existing bathtub, new glass windows (new glass not entirely new windows), nee tiles and grout for kitchen floor, sanding and painting cabinets (nice and white) in kitchen, keeping existing countertop in kitchen (not granite but clean and looks nice, installing dishwasher....I think that covers it...SO - here is the last piece of the puzzle...the kitchen has a drop ceiling.

(The best custom builders/remodelers here in Austin have worked with the same subs for decades.) 

We have customers who have been very successful in this space.