If you were to put aside the money that would go to extra payments, what interest rates would you get on that (ie would it make more money sitting in a high yield savings account instead of paying down a low interest rate mortgage)? 

For my wife it’s the opposite.But you make a good point that real estate is not for everyone and there are other ways to make money.

I would like to start investing soon, but my full time is brokering for Hard/Private money loans.

If I rent it, it won't cash flow more than 2%, which is sort of ok as my goals is creating a portfolio of additional income for retirement (12 years from now)  If I sell it I will likley lose a little money ($5-$10k) I Used a VA loan to purchase zero down and will be living in it for 24 months while I do the rehab.purchase price $330K, rehab $15k, Estimated ARV is $370k.  

If you are going to say your loan down part of your return for your net worth -- it should also be discounted, considering it is money leaving your pocket.

Seller has no money to pay utilities or buy groceries.

I'm also looking at my Equity loan, saving money, selling the property if it is worth it, I had thought about a refinance.

Personally, I think they are very ugly and I really don't see how using them saves much (any) money unless you get them free.Finishes are the most expensive part of construction.

No one cares about your money more than you. 

This is actually the hottest market in America IMO.With that level amount of money you have to play big and do NOT think small ( i am still small investor LOL)