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Should I feel bad if the lender spends the money on the title search and I don't use them?

I am fortunate to be surrounded by knowledgeable brokers, agents and hard money lenders but feel I need a solid plan in place before I attempt to tap the resources around me. 

They also do hosted websites for a little bit more money if you don't want to muck around with Wordpress.OwnerRez also syncs calendars across all channels. 

Yes it Will take some money but it doesn't all have to be your money.

He raises money, makes X% from money raised while buying and managing assets with raised money for others who in turn make X% return.

And Yes, I get that you have to spend money to make money, but quality issues are making me start to question if I should continue to bleed money into this thing, which by the way I haven't got one actual deal from as of yet.What I like: 1.

I really wish I looked into him more before spending this kind of money.

With your permission, please allow me to go first.There was a time when I believed that if you didn't come from money, you couldn't get anywhere.

Seems like it may be better control of your money then SDIRA and less fees.