Personally, if I was living in a hotel I'd want to move more quickly too. 

Any suggestions for a good real estate lawyer in Alabama would be appreciated.This person has a very large legal judgement against him.  

He said he emailed us his 30-day notice to both of our personal emails two weeks ago, however neither of us received an email from him.

This is probably not the way you're "supposed" to used QB but I didn't want to get two softwares - one for business and one for personal.  

Even if I have a buyer, I still post it, and as buyers contact me about the property, i tell them that property not available, but I have a conversation with them about their Criteria.

I was not happy with the conversation.  

Someone recently suggested that I used a person (unknown to me but referred) to use their credit to help be refinance.

With that amount of equity you'd likely qualify for a HELOC on your primary residence to access that equity to buy an investment property or to buy a new primary and rent out your current home - the latter is what I do personally and all of this is what I offer my clients professionally. 

I've done several house-hacks personally with different strategies as well and have helped many clients do them in Pinellas/Hillsborough/Pasco/Manatee counties as well so if you have questions let me know and I can give you a rundown of your best options based on your preferences.If you don't want, or don't need to house-hack, then you have a couple options and that is going to depend on your goals, savings rate, and other details. 

At least that way I can use some of the cash flow to save for a personal residence.Any advice/perspectives on how I should approach this?