I “get along” with my ex that I was with for 20 years but she is a grudge holder.

I agree with Carlton B. either your family members are equity stake holders or, they are holders of debt.

The bank was filing to rescind the auction sale and start over because they failed to name the second mtg holder as an additional defendant.

I used the profits to pay off existing loans on prime properties I do want to hold(er) term. 

@Nicole W. for your properties in Dundalk are the tenants voucher holders or market tenants? 

Second, the housing authorities have a public policy interest (and pressure from the federal government) not to concentrate voucher holders in bad neighborhoods.  

I gave an advertisement to the local PHA and they at least claim that they distributed it to their list of voucher holders, but either they did not do so, or nobody that has seen it is interested because I have no contacts yet.

On separate occasions, the lenders have reduced rates by as much as 30 basis points, without additional fees, to get a loan to work in my favor and to keep me from shopping with another lender when the interest rate was still trending across the board.Back to the OP, I think the ultimate responsibility falls on the asset holder/investor.

Do you know if someone on a work visa such as H1B can still buy properties out of state, rent it out and make income?

I purchased my first property with an H1B visa, L visas work as well and then diplomatic visas also work to get US financing.