In order to avoid pulling out my hair, I have to manually connect each time I want to reconcile transactions, usually about once a month for my own sanity.

We can “split hairs” on this topic, but let’s just accept that our different experiences have produced a somewhat differing view.  

I am a software developer and I authored our current software, so interfacing to their API is not really a big issue, but I am not sure if anyone is familiar witth the process of using an API, If you arent familiar with the good ol nitty gritty programming, you arent going to get very far before pulling out all your hair.

Personally a cash-out refi could help me get more quickly into all-cash BRRRs or a REI venture in Spain, however I don't know to what extent this is at the expense of rental cash flows, and what is the wiser decision long term.I've combed through posts online and looked for Excel templates to run some calcs and get a sense, but nothing really filled the void... 

Her attempts to become a lawyer in moments like this are hair raising stupid.

Appliances and fixtures were old and tired.Basically, the core bones of the property were good, but there were a lot of things that seemed ripe for easy improvement.The location was great, right next to the town’s primary commercial district, with a grocery store 100 yards away, coffee shop/bakery, Post Office, drugstore, hardware store, hair and nail salons, barber shop, dentist, bank, a half dozen restaurants, and a variety of other shops and services.

Don't have to be on the deed even to declare it your homestead.It may be splitting hairs, and I may have been unclear in my initial post, but I believe homestead laws are designed in part to protect non-title holding spouses, so if the new wife moves into her husband's house he cannot sell or mortgage without the wife's consent nor can it be forced to be sold to pay involuntary creditors (as opposed to voluntary creditors such as mtg/DOT lenders). 

how you believe those promises re the question.Your argument and reasoning is quite poor, mainly because it relies on splitting hairs and it is up to you, Carlos Ptriawan, which hair to split.

For me it’s really not about splitting hairs over $10-$20 a month..I just want things to run smoothly at this point. 

---I'm sure we are splitting hairs at this point.