However as a complete beginner I am not sure where to beginner.Therefore I would like to know from anyone that has had any success in real estate investing what they would consider the top 5 most important skills to learn are?

I think one of the great advantages of dealing with college students is that it forces you to hone your communication and management skills and systems.I think if you manage student rents well, then you can manage any type of lease.So you have to think about it.

That's largely based on your skills in negotiating. 

It takes a special set of skills to be successful in these areas.

Marketing and communications skills are key to this business you have to learn how to listen to the people’s issues and solve them.Ask question for the things you don’t understand and find solutions.

That said, I've always learned by doing and working with folks more experienced and skilled than myself to better myself.  

However with 2 kids under 2 and as-of-yet reluctant family, I've been reflecting on my skill set on how I can add value to a more experienced investor without  consuming all of my free time not being home.I can do just about any DIY project but so can any joe-blow looking to be a handy man. 

She says that she just forgets, and I honestly think that's part of it coupled with the fact that she just has poor organization skills, because like I said, she usually pays the same day she receives a late notice. 

All about your risk tolerance, skill set & experience.

I want to buy and hold a high number of units and I have skills in rehabbing.