He AirBnB's the main house to afford the bills and cash-flow a little.

This will allow you to learn the process and figure out your market while not being desperate to sell to cover your bills. 

I also don’t take into account the tenants grocery bill either, but I’m sure hope they do, because rents due on the first. 

@Hunter MillsHave you contacted your debtors and tried to pay off the old medical bills?

I knew I wouldn't be receiving much since most of our business is digitized (e-bills, etc) but occasionally I get a vendor/service that wants a good ol' fashioned "address". 

I asked the listing broker about taxes and they replied:"Since they will be deeded as condos you will pay the taxes as assessed by the county"Unless I am misunderstanding something, they are asking me to consider purchasing without knowing what my tax bill will be.

Then there are the service providers who will install and service and split the bill.

@Ashley Rummage, I assume this extra 10% you have is over and above the 6 months emergency cash reserve you have to pay bills in the event the RE market slows and/or something were to happen to your husbands employment.

Ive been living with my elderly mother for awhile in her house to help her with her with bills.

I do not know what his legal bills were.