Not sure how CA works but keep in mind that in NJ if the other heirs don't want to deal,the one heir can step up as Administrator and take over the estate on behalf of the others.

My only concern is your front steps.

I stepped out on this forum knowing I would take a little heat but from you is completely disrespectful and you can hide behind this forum all you like.

Basic steps to improving overall cash flow fall into 2 categories: Either increase income or decrease expenses.

The REO Listing just fell out of escrow with the old buyer and we stepped in with an offer at 285k.

So if I have an outstanding loan with my employer plan, I could roll the 401k AND the loan into a solo 401k, thus side-stepping the immediate repayment requirement upon leaving my employer?

If you push through on your 21 day mark, I would ask you for a step escrow and short due diligence time.

My next step would be to have to pay them back afterwards.

I'll stick to the 'accountability' part since you can find the step-by-step parts elsewhere on BP.

My next step was to talk to an attorney acquaintance of mine and he suggested I send the seller a 'demand letter' stating that we had an enforceable contract and to follow through with the deal or a ' Lis Pendens' would be filed.