I am a retired cop, so the conversation is pretty easy.I offer to pay them when I close on a house that they send me, and I ask them to look for two things for me.

@Steve Olafson The value of the property not my primary consideration at this time, as I consider it my retirement.

I have set a goal to be able to retire/full-time invest starting on my 45th birthday (if I choose to do so...I love my current day job so maybe I will do that forever).

They worked hard--never taking a holiday or family occasion off--because they felt that if they worked hard now, they'd eventually be able to retire and travel around the country.Trouble is...years before that was supposed to happen, Uncle Bob suffered a fatal heart attack at the wheel of a tour bus at the airport. 

@Tom SeccaficoThere are several dozen companies that specialize in some form of self-directed retirement plan programs.  

Old deployment injuries fired back up in full force and as a result I will be getting medically retired from the army (a process that will take another 9 months.. ish).

The previous bishop spent all the churches money before he got dementia and retired.

I would much rather retire to Kihei than Waikiki.

The performer is great for your self directed retirement accounts since that amortized payment will accumulate tax free or deferred and its pretty hands' off.

If your pastners are using retirment funds, you need a compitent attorney to draft the corp docs.