Search Bigger Pockets for posts about "private lending"...There are many here.

Another option might be to ask the person that I would like to pass the deal to if they would like to be a private investor for me on the deal.Any and all advice is greatly appreciated.Thanks,DedicatedLearner

Have sources of private money for commercial deals from 1MM to 50MM.

In most cases, HML payments are based upon I/O only---the average maturity for a HML is 6-12 months (with extensions allowed).

Gotta be realistic with sources you're pursuing, for me REO's and Private lenders have worked but the quantity of contracts that I thrown out there has been a lot, basically like fishing.

I have specialty in International dvelopment/real estate, private funding, as well as strategic planning.

Don’t get me wrong, he wants to make money, but I wanted to put that out there so everyone knew this wasn’t a ‘typical’ ‘Investor/Private Lender’ deal.Thank you in advance for all of your responses, I find this website to be amazing, and value all of your opinions.

Would you rather pay more and get personal/private attention or pay less and be part of a large group?

Cheyne,Having done fix and flips for 12 years, both Jon and Mike give you excellent advice.I always limit the number or use of contractors specifically for the reasons you have experienced and Mike described.You sound as if you are at the end of the line money wise, if you can't get capital to finish, either through private money or a money partner, I would lean towards selling as-is and get out from it before it becomes a further burden.

I don't like to disclose specific numbers for my private investing, but rest assured that I made many tens of thousands of dollars over the two years -- much more equity than if I had purchased the property outright from the start.Also, I did not put up any option money up front, so this was in essence a no money down deal.