I then compiled a list of properties I will hand-write letters to explain I want to buy the duplex and house-hack (I won't use the verbage house-hack).

Let me know if I explained anything wrong or if you have any questions.

@Aurelio Kim can you can explain why Forsyth county?  

I've also got a realtor friend who's fed me deals and gaining inroads with Bank REO's and has out right asked to partner with me on deals.   

yes...no lender/bank is going to work directly with you unless they are that single branch local, community mom and pop bank that is two deals away from going into FDIC receivership.

I have my tenants take it to my bank and deposit it directly into the account.  

I want to put in an offer for a property, it listed on MLS for 120k, want to put in an offer for 70k but my agents said I would need the fund in my bank first.

We listened to a few of Robert Kiyosaki's books and he made it sound like we could do no money down be being a little creative, and we could also do non recourse loans and we assumed that meant the bank wouldn't require huge capital reserves.

Another thing that may happen is your bank may only give you a 5 year fixed rate that then adjusts after the first 5 years.  

Also if it is a bank overlay and there is a bank who will do it in 6months is it a bad idea or frowned upon to go to another bank in 6months.