My son goes to school there, it is by far my favorite area so far.  

I know who the competition is (not much) the biggest realtor/flipper/renter that owns ALOT up here is a slumlord that people are starting to hate for allowing all the drug lords out on the old AFB... he will slowly be pushed out or retired... his son will take over and he already has his dads bad reputation.

Since you mentioned the son "is considered the executor", "by the bank" I'm guessing the son has no legal authority.  

If i am not comfortable going to check on my property by myself or with my young son, it is off the radar.It is not worth it.My .02 cents

looking at purchasing a multi-family unit and I was wondering if I could put my son's name somewhere on the paperwork that would legally satisfied the need for owner occupancy if he moves in there.

My son used Kaplan a few years ago for prep for his exam, and he liked it.

If you deny them occupancy, you have to let them know what item(s) on their credit contributed to their denial and inform them that they are entitled to get a credit report within 60 days of the denial (this should be a denial letter that contains the reason for the denial and includes a reference to the law that states a tenant is entitled to a free credit report within 60 days of denial). 

I also have a 2 year old son.  

He (son) has contacted the bank & told them that they have a buyer (me) & that they need an extinction on the time before foreclosure process begins, so that I can bring in carpenter to estimate repair costs. 

Myself and my two sons worked on the house for two weeks.