I think that might be the best way to get this question in front of other people who are in your same shoes (or close to it).Hope that makes sense.

@Mark Kim I was in your shoes 2 years ago.

I was once in your shoes and totally understand.. oh, it’s hard to make a move when you don’t feel like you have a confidence and get a lot of conflicting viewpoints and opinions on these forms in podcasts. 

Every day counts.Talk to an attorney, if I were in your shoes I would tell the lender.

I have a house that I'd like out of and I'd actually pay out of pocket to get rid of so if I were in your shoes I'd sell and feel good about it. 

Had I been in @John Elmenhe's shoes, I would work for an experienced real estate investor...even for free.

One of the best educators i found years ago when I went to 7 real estate meetings a month, sat in the back and had grassed stained tennis shoes and a t-shirt on, with Levi jeans.

These things may or may not help us in the bush, as they are federal not state supported.If I were in your shoes in Anchorage or somewhere depending heavily on the slope, or construction workers for renters, I would try to asses how low of a rent base my properties could support, and look at WHO my tenants are. 

So, having been in your shoes, here is what you need to actually find out:Will your grandmother actually oust your uncle?  

In your shoes I would reach out to owners in the complex and see what the new buyers are doing for funds.