I feel like once i get over this bump ill be fearless and invest more funds, i have facts just self doubt i guess.

My guess is you'll find out it's not a legal 5unit!

I’m constantly second guessing my own pursuit: fears of failing health as I age and deal with injuries, the pressures of supporting a family of five, the nearing reality that I’ll need to change a career I’ve made progress in for over a quarter century, and even the social pressure to remain who you are.

My guess is without specific authorization in the lease or approval of the tenant, you are not  allowed to go in.

So I guess I have to find a list of people to write.

I guess I'm overwhelmed with all this information and I'm not sure where to start and what to do.

I guess you should just wait around for her to burn the place down 

Thanks Abel, I guess looking for a partner is the best way to go around this.Thanks for your comment Thomas and Amit, but I've read plenty of books that talks about how people in debt were able to buy real estate and became millionaire real estate investors.

(I'm guessing Orlando, but figured I should ask) 

It's obviously not an easy formula to weigh, but since you seem to be a bit more neutral about the situation, I guess you (your agent) should be weighing the market and your property, and incremental drops may be the agent's best strategy at the moment.