I was not tryign to throw you under the bus at all with the misunderstanding I was more apologizing for my own interpretation of her experience.

This is a pretty advanced way to do it so I apologize in advance to anyone I confused ?

Hi Nicholas, Apologies for the lack of info. 

I wasn't trying to insult, offend or attack you in any way and my apologies if you felt that way. 

All they had to do is apologize, say they won't do it anymore, and offer to pay for the damages (around $600).

You don't have to apologize profusely or put them up in a hotel or pay $600 for the food they lost or whatever. 

I apologize for leaving this thread hanging. 

Apologies for the few typos in post.  

As you can see from this journal, things have been changing constantly due to the difficulty of getting the construction loan, so for being all over the place, one day I am close to closing and the next I am not , one day I am doing this and then I am doing that, for that I apologize, I am just updating and writing as the changes occurI still feel like I have a leg up being that the demographic I am catering to could afford 25% down for a jumbo loan to keep their rate down like @Caroline Gerardo pointed out; however, I am not putting much stake in that.

I'm sure there were many opposing takeaway's by all who read that thread, but James didn't apologize for his methods or process, and acknowledged they're not for everyone.