But if its going to be a nightmare that ties up my money and time ,  I dont even want to bother.  

I was in your same shoes, and I decided to get my license while I learned the investing game along the way.  

He tells me that he didn't know his name was still tied to the home in anyway as he walked away from the home 7 years ago...

He tells me that he didn't know his name was still tied to the home in anyway as he walked away from the home 7 years ago...

Look at how many boomers are all leveraged out on a 30 year tied to their current income, with no hope of even living that long.

Putting yourself in the employer's shoes, how would you rate the following applications (or resumes) received from different applicants:One consisting of only the following sentence: "Please tell me more about your job and how much you'll pay me."

Many wholesalers are time wasting raw newbies who do not have the wherewithal to close the transaction and so tie up a desperate sellers property. 

I still have a lot to learn and I didn't want to tie up my precious capital in a small returning deal.

You will have tie to pay those. 

Rather than seeing it from the point of view that other people's money tied up leaving me with more to invest, I just view it as a huge liability for me to pay them back.