I opened this thinking $8k for paint was crazy, but that sounds like a huge job.My rule of thumb is to get at least 3 quotes for everything (at least the first time) and let everyone know I'm shopping them around.

I'd probably shop around for a different lender since the lender has already told you they want things fixed before they give you money and it is an "as is" sale.

-Sell it to a second-hand appliance shop?

There is a ferry that runs between San Francisco and Sausalito, with exceptional dining and shopping on both ends.

Real estate is a 24 hour endeavor for us and working with family means we can "talk shop" even while at the family Sunday dinner.

Reaching out to a qualified broker is your best bet both in terms of providing guidance and shopping your quote for the best rate (which may come from a different provider each year).

Not that they are "scammers", but yes, they probably could inflate numbers a bit to make that sale.You need to research online and network online for now.Then you come home and do more research, shop, and find your first deal that is successful.You don't get all those years back that you're spending overseas.

I made up a bunch of day glow orange stickers that say "I buy houses" and everytime I go to the grocery store, I place on sticker on the handle of my shopping cart. 

Multiunit projects require visibility from main streets, and should be close to amenities like shopping.

I would definitely shop around.