I appreciate the input and with think through this decision.

Again, I am learning through all of this, and I just appreciate your responding to me! 

Take your time and really think through your purpose and perspective before making a move.  

Are you able to secure the house through a lease option so you can purchase in a few years when you are ready?

Apologize in advance if this has been outlined before, but I read on different posts you can use hard money loans through Auction.com.

The way I did it is I built up total confidence through first education and second entrepreneurship.  

There's no way you should be able to feel the metal bars of the frame through the cushions when seated, no matter what. 

You have a job that keeps you busy, but you want to start creating wealth through Real Estate.  

A trusted real estate agent and a lender can guide you through the process, explain the help that’s out there, and connect you with resources to make buying a home a reality.Bottom LineIf you’re ready to stop wondering if buying a home is possible and start exploring solutions, connect with an expert agent and trusted lender.

Leverage equity, explore house hacking, and continue learning through books, podcasts, and local networking to refine your strategy.