It's a method of getting them to participate so they feel comfortable asking questions and learning.

hoping to learn from all you guys that already made it 

Let us know how we can help as you explore your first steps!

This helps to avoid conflict.

Is this deal worth it?

Now, I have seen some lenders get really annoying about this and require a spouse to be on the loan...so IF YOU CAN find a lender that will allow just you, then that's the route we want to go.Hope that makes sense.

Quote from @Jake Handler: I am under contract on purchasing an off-market home, seller finance in North Jersey. 

Stay patient, adjust expectations, and seek help as the process progresses, as one great deal can make up for multiple failed attempts.Good Luck!

This is enough to keep wholesalers from trying to get your deal tied up and daisy chained. 

Quote from @Collin Hays: I love micro-managers who step over dollars to pick up dimes!