It's your typical rural community, there were junk and old cars accompanying the SFRs, as well as a few kids playing with adults standing around. 

I am a younger female (though he's around my age), so I'm not sure if he just isn't taking me seriously, or if he's taking most of the deals he sees or referring to other investors.

I can see it now, "Defendant, why did you think outside of the box for this white Anglo Saxon protestant male borrower but, didn't think outside the box for your black African widowed female borrower"?

You suck it up, do the work and try to do better next time like a responsible adult

I would like to start putting an investment project together of constructing and operate a private adult assisted care facility and would like to hear some of your ideas about its construction costs in term of per square foot, room and/or occupancy unit.

I tracked down some of her adult children who happen to live nearby, and eventually reached one of them who is 'handling' the property.

The second apartment has two adults, no dishwasher, and no washer/dryer.There's no set formula but you can get a pretty good guesstimate of what each unit's share will be.

My property manager is female, spends all day in the neighborhood.I assume the property you are looking at is a SFR or duplex?

I've been in big cities most of my adult life (ex-NYC too...SF, etc), and now I'm all about living in the suburbs or generally less densely populated areas.  

Now as an adult living in Vancouver and working in the film industry I want to start really building wealth for the future and I think real estate is the way to go.